well things are not getting better over on my side of the fence...i dont know what to do about james i talked to him about the Cheryl, he says that he is only talking to her as a friend and nothing more. so i guess i believed him , i do believe him...but tito got a little pissed that i believe him so we were going to talk today but he coulnt come over so he is going to come tommarrow, we are going to talk about things and try to figure out what we are going to change about our relationship to make it work out. hopefully we work things out... at least i hope so....